Outspoken Counselor, George Lutterodt has descended heavily on Ghanaian actress, Juliet Ibrahim for stating unequivocally that she wants to focus on her business and son but not marriage.
Earlier, the ‘Shattered Romance’ actress who was formerly married to a Ghanaian businessman told Sunday Scoop in Nigeria, “It is interesting you ask about wedding bells. I have always said that my focus at this point is my son and business. Creating a balance between being a successful business woman and a good mother is a lot to handle and that is my focus…”
“The biggest misconception about me would be that people think everything comes easy for me. They feel the outcome looks easier than the process and that is alright,” she added.
But Counselor Lutterodt said when a lady is marked by despair or loss of hope in marriage, then they tend to make comments such as Juliet Ibrahim’s.
He noted that comments such as Juliet Ibrahim’s comment are an acronym ‘MFS’ - ‘Mafa no Saa’, meaning ‘I will take it like that’ in relation to her current status in life as not wanting a man.
“When you get to ‘MFS’ you talk like Juliet Ibrahim. I pray that all those putting pressure on her to get married should keep up with the pressure till she gets married. The success of a woman is not being a CEO but being the head of family. It is men who prepare for marriage. Women don’t prepare for marriage. What men can do women can’t do…” he explained.
“I felt very sad that she wants people to stop putting pressure on her. I see that as one of the disappointments. The success of a woman is not owning a company and being the CEO. But rather making a family and making a man respected at the beautiful gate of the whole world…” he added.
Nevertheless, he further added that he rendered women who are proudly celebrating their kids without their dads are invalid as such they should do well to let their kids know who their father is.
Hence women who claim to be hustling for properties should know it yields no marriage as such it can be a burden for men to lay proposal at their feet.
“All the born ones who are proud and celebrating without men are invalid. If your son’s father is not around, let the child know who their father is. Make sure to marry a man who is not a boy but a father…,”
“If you could have married a lady you’re better off than making her marrying you. Coming down to Ghana to all the sisters who are hustling, the properties don’t give you marriage. It is a lie if they say they don’t want to marry. They are sometimes burdens. Monkeys play by sizes…” he explained.
“If you don’t get a man to marry you, buy a mirror and examine yourself well…” he said on Starr FM.
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First of all let me commend you for not insulting and arguing your point out. That is how it should be; in any civilised society we argue or debate to put our points across. Now back to the subject matter; (1)yes it is true that there will be no marriage in heaven but unfortunately we are not there yet. We are on earth and until we get there we are to do on earth as it was commanded of us from the beginning of creation. One of them is to be fruitful & multiply but this will not come by a woman being a CEO and drinking water. This will come from marriage or a union between man & wo-man. (2)You did talk about Mother Theresa but note that the Bible is only manual for human not any other thing. Besides earthly valued system is different from Heavenly valued one so that can't hold here.(3) You are shifting the goal post from marriage to purpose of man. that's not it. In my argument I did quote what God said in His word; “Then God said, ‘It is not good that man should be alone; I will make him a helper fit for him’” (Gen. 2:18-24) - So the purpose for God creating wo-man is to be man's helper. What is the point in wo-man's success when it's not in relation or in line with God's original intent for creating her? It's like telling me that your car is shiny, got good seats etc but can't take you from point A to B. Purpose failed because car is not made to be shiny and have good seats. BAM! In order not to bore you with long write up; I will leave it here. You talked about my argument being flawed but you never substantiate your argument with even a single Bible quotation! wooow!.
He is right if you humble yourself to the lordship of the word of God. Any woman who will fight hard for personal goals through Think and thin, and cannot fight for the number one reason for which she was created - MARRIAGE. Its a problem
That man is a menace and a threat to society and an ***barred word***.
@BAM with all due respect your argument is flawed on so many levels. If a woman was created out of a man and she is therefore incomplete with him, then what makes the man? Isn't the man incomplete as well? How can the man be complete on his on and the woman incomplete? Please stop this argument about a woman can never be complete without a man because it doesn't have any merit. Didnt Jesus say there will be no marriage(husband and wife) in heaven? If marriage was the all in all why don't we continue marrying in the after life? Was mother Theresa ever married? So you are telling me that you living with your wife in Accra and eating gari and beans is more "complete" than Mother Theresa who is celebrated years after her death? The most important purpose in life is not marriage, it is finding God's purpose for your life and living it to the fullest whether single or married. May God grant you understanding(sorry for the long post).
If you do not believe Counselor Lutterodt watch Akumaa Mama Zimbi's programme on Wednesday and you will see women seeking marriage. Those without husbands can pretend in public as if they do not care or even belittle marriage as not essential to life. But as a Marriage counselor I have been told many times the trauma older single women go through. My advice to single women is for them to be still and wait on God for His own time. Just ask Gifty Anti!
pls is marriage every thing.masa leave the women alone ok .
Well for your information it is clear in the Bible why God made the woman. Not to be a CEO or anything but to help a man. “Then God said, ‘It is not good that man should be alone; I will make him a helper fit for him’” (Gen. 2:18-24). So Madam CEO where is your man? God apparently had formed male and female animals separately, but the female human was originally part of man—Adam said, “She shall be called ‘woman,’ for she was taken out of man” (Genesis 2:23). So women you are never complete until you found a man. Yes Gloria Akufo a lawyer and now the attorney general but only God knows what she does in her private life; may be other ladies could tell you. She will be complete with a man in her life. She can rise to the sky but she will forever lack what a married woman have.
What is WRONG with this Luttu lunatic pastor -KWARAAA !!!!!; the fact is that like riches we can all never be rich neither can we all build our own houses and neither can we all be Presidents of the Ghana ; ; besides statistically the ratio between men and women is around 3:1 in society today ; in China the opposite is the case but even that ; the women are finding it it difficult to marry and are forced to rent men just to show off that they have potential men suitors in China; does this FUll read about the socia-economic trends in marriages around the world and where does this ediot of a man get his delusional thinking about marriage ; the fact is things have changed in society and not all women will like to marry ; most women today are very ambitious and very educated and can hold better and resonsible positions ; today you cannot force a well educated woman with success to marry any man because the woman who married this donkey pastor luttu is MAD !!!!! how can you marry such a a DONKEY with wierd ideas ; the fact is that any woman if she is desperate can go and have a child or children and look after her children because the Bible or the Koran or Talmut is not a rule BOOK as some pastors seem to make us believe and does not force its contents on women in terms of marriage ; 'MASSA ENYE BY FORCE' ; as a christian you have a choice to declare yourself a christian but you are not forced to do all the things in the Bible because afterall there were trail of unmarried women in the Bible ; This pastor Luttu should understand that when GOD created man ; he did impose anything on man ; the creator gave man CHOICE AND FREE WILL but choice and free will has a PRICE : marriage has no price ; you can choose to marry or not to marry that is a matter for you besides if with the current socio-economic trends feels her chances of not marrying but having children serves her purposes then why NOT ; afterall women have a sell by date but men have not ; Hannah Tetteh has no husband; so does a lot of these beautiful successful women in society today ; MARRIAGE IS NOT NOT RELEVANT AND ANY PERSONS OR PASTORS WHO CROW ABOUT IT ARE JUST WASTING THEIR TIME ; if married women are not preared to share what will hapen to the EXCESS WOMEN !!!!!!!!!IN SOCIETY .
Where did this man get his counseling education from, what makes him a counselor, how is his marriage like, any body can give himself titles and talk ***barred word***. If someone won't marry what's your problem
Well for your information it is clear in the Bible why God made the woman. Not to be a CEO or anything but to help a man. “Then God said, ‘It is not good that man should be alone; I will make him a helper fit for him’” (Gen. 2:18-24). So Madam CEO where is your man? God apparently had formed male and female animals separately, but the female human was originally part of man—Adam said, “She shall be called ‘woman,’ for she was taken out of man” (Genesis 2:23). So women you are never complete until you found a man. Yes Gloria Akufo a lawyer and now the attorney general but only God knows what she does in her private life; may be other ladies could tell you. She will be complete with a man in her life. She can rise to the sky but she will forever lack what a married woman have.