MultiTV�s �I�m In Love With Bomaye� First Eviction: Lovely Goes Home

I had long predicted Lovely to be the first to go; now I am waiting on my applause- call me a Bomaye oracle and you won�t be too far from the truth. As a matter of fact anyone with enough grey matter could have seen it coming and so there might actually be a few oracles out there if you know where to look. Lovely is gone home just like I predicted. I was practically at the edge of my seat for well over an hour as I waited for the moment of truth. Something that rarely happens to me is happening and it is all because of a bunch of girls who have decided they are going to live in one house to win a �king.� There is something about reality shows that just doesn�t do it for me but even a super skeptic like me had to admit this one is something special. If I had called it a fascinating human experiment, I am not about to change my mind. Lovely had tried her best but it just wasn�t good enough. You could cut through the tension in the house with a knife as the girls waited in anxiety. Tears had started flowing just from the tension alone and while nobody knew who was going home - I was dead sure it would be Lovely. She had been nominated for eviction meaning somehow she just doesn�t do it for Bomaye. Out of the 12 she had the �I need to win this� vibe about her except she hadn�t figured out how. I believe the need to win got her running all over the place and not quite being sure how to do it - too much focus on the prize coupled with the not so real personality. She appeared to be working hard to be seen as the most intelligent girl in the house as she tried to explain everything except half of the time she was getting it wrong and giving answers that did not really answer the question. She was a �tryer� and that was not a good thing. Those who made it to Bomaye�s favourite list are �naturals.� Princy is nuts and everyone knows that: they love her for it. Promzy is young, silly and exciting. Lovely didn�t appear to be in control of herself when she was alone with Bomaye. This became clear when she was seen with the girls as she seemed more comfortable there. I have found it difficult to determine what she brought to the table; in fact I am sure she herself had a lot of trouble figuring that out. I will give her an average score for looks and so that may not necessarily be the problem. She had failed to comply with the principles of performance: which required that one should have all her assets working for her. When she spoke it worked against her, when she cooked it worked against. This was clear when she launched a list of complaints when she was alone in the boardroom with Bomaye. �Nothing I do pleases you,� she lamented. Of course I was not in the house and I wasn�t pleased with her either. In my opinion she is a purposeless person: she has not figured out who she is and where she is going. She will take her chances with anything that comes her way and hopes she can work hard enough to win. People like that run in all kinds of direction with no real purpose in mind. She would like to be what is needed and not really herself, if she knew what that was. It was not surprising then that she got evicted even ahead of the �I am shy bunch� who in themselves don�t impress Bomaye that much. I am not sure what she�s going to be doing with her life but she certainly needs a good dose of coaching and personal development. She needs to know who she really is.